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Kink Popularity: Masturbation Instructions

Jerking off instruction, commonly referred to as JOI, involves a consensual exchange where one partner guides the other through the specifics of self-pleasure, enhancing intimacy and exploring new dimensions of sexual communication and control.

Give my partner masturbation instructions

18.4% said No, 31.1% said Maybe, and 50.6% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 14%
Maybe 30%
True 56%
22%
32%
46%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 57.7%
Straight women: 44.1%
Gay men: 45.0%
Lesbian women: 51.8%
Bisexual men: 48.3%
Bisexual women: 49.7%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-05-17)

Have my partner give me masturbation instructions

12.6% said No, 24.2% said Maybe, and 63.2% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 13%
Maybe 26%
True 61%
12%
23%
66%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 60.8%
Straight women: 65.8%
Gay men: 60.8%
Lesbian women: 62.9%
Bisexual men: 60.3%
Bisexual women: 69.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-05-17)

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