Kink popularity

Struggling

Restrained, but pretending to try to escape — pulling against the rope, twisting, fake-fighting it. Heightens the helpless part without changing the actual scene.

How common is Struggling?

38.2% of test-takers say yes to Struggling, and another 26.6% say maybe.

Have my partner wear restraints and struggle

35.2% said No, 26.6% said Maybe, and 38.2% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 26%
Maybe 27%
True 47%
44%
27%
30%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 49.2%
Straight women: 26.0%
Gay men: 33.5%
Lesbian women: 40.4%
Bisexual men: 43.7%
Bisexual women: 40.7%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-23)

Wear restraints and struggle

32.1% said No, 23.9% said Maybe, and 44.0% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 44%
Maybe 26%
True 31%
23%
23%
54%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 28.2%
Straight women: 54.4%
Gay men: 48.4%
Lesbian women: 51.8%
Bisexual men: 46.3%
Bisexual women: 60.2%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-23)

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